Behaviour Family Relationships

The Barebones of Marriage

Dear Reader, Don’t think I have forgotten you. I havenโ€™t. I have just been busy for the last two weeks travelling to a very dear friendโ€™s wedding. I am so happy that she is happy that I travelled the breadth of Indiaโ€”Lucknow to Mysoreโ€”to be a part of her marriage celebrations. Right now, you probably […]

Behaviour Family Friendship Relationships

The Myths of Parenthood

At a fairly young age – maybe 15 – I realised I did not want to be a parent. I knew then that motherhood was not for me, although I started vocalising that thought to other people much later. Before you bemoan my fate, let me tell you there is nothing wrong with me – […]

Aspirational Family Relationships

Memories of my Grandfather

Today is my paternal grandfatherโ€™s death anniversary. Usually, I like to pay tributes on birthdays rather than on death anniversaries. But my mum shared a picture of him this morning which triggered a lot of memories, so I decided that today I would write about the ways in which I have been inspired by my […]

Behaviour Family Friendship Relationships

Understanding Grief

We have entered the third month of 2021 with hope in our hearts that this year will be better than the last, that the struggles and despair of last year will get over and our lives will go back to their ordinary patterns again. But even as we try to move on, there are some […]

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When the clock struck 12…

…. I turned 35. Yes, as the day changed from 15th to 16th a few days ago, I turned 35. As a child, I always thought that anyone who has spent over 30 years walking this planet must be old. I mean, the first time I had this thought, my parents were already in their […]

Behaviour Brain Family Spiritual

What does your knitting say about you?

The simple answer to that question is – volumes! Yes, your knitting says volumes about you. I realized this recently when I saw my mother knitting. My mum knits fast and – in her own words – doesnโ€™t mind if things get fudged up a little here and there. She often loses stitches between rows […]

Family Friendship Gift

Gifting warmth one person at a time

Right at the beginning – when I had launched this website – I had written a post on why everyone ought to start knitting. In that post, I had listed out all the advantages of knitting and had vehemently argued that knitting was not only about wool or woollen clothes. I had stated quite categorically […]

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Save some, Earn some

Last week I fell in love. Again. While randomly surfing on Amazon (yes I have enough time on my hands to do that), I chanced upon a gorgeous (very, very expensive!) skein of yarn which set my heart aflutter. My hand hovered over the ‘add to cart’ button and I was about to press it […]

Family Friendship Spiritual

My Get-out-of-Funk Checklist

First and foremost, I must thank you all for your overwhelming response to my last post – Grandma’s wisdom. For any writer, especially a novice like me, the highest praise possible is for their writing to resonate with the person reading their work. Your comments about your experiences and memories have encouraged me to share […]