Behaviour Friendship Relationships

Living with an Introvert

When the movie Jab We Met released in the year 2006, I was still in Law School. Much to my surprise, many people who watched the movie later came to me and said that Geet (Kareena Kapoorโ€™s character in the film) reminded them of me. Surprise is too mild a word because, when I heard […]

Behaviour Family Relationships

The Barebones of Marriage

Dear Reader, Don’t think I have forgotten you. I havenโ€™t. I have just been busy for the last two weeks travelling to a very dear friendโ€™s wedding. I am so happy that she is happy that I travelled the breadth of Indiaโ€”Lucknow to Mysoreโ€”to be a part of her marriage celebrations. Right now, you probably […]

Aspirational Behaviour Children Relationships

The Freedom to Choose and our Little Difference(s)

Today’s post is about some things that are close to my heart. The freedom to choose the way we want to live, our right to make choices that are not conventional, and the reason one personโ€™s choices can be radically different from another personโ€™s. Sounds a bit much? I know when you hear the word […]

Behaviour Family Friendship Relationships

The Myths of Parenthood

At a fairly young age – maybe 15 – I realised I did not want to be a parent. I knew then that motherhood was not for me, although I started vocalising that thought to other people much later. Before you bemoan my fate, let me tell you there is nothing wrong with me – […]

Aspirational Family Relationships

Memories of my Grandfather

Today is my paternal grandfatherโ€™s death anniversary. Usually, I like to pay tributes on birthdays rather than on death anniversaries. But my mum shared a picture of him this morning which triggered a lot of memories, so I decided that today I would write about the ways in which I have been inspired by my […]

The picture is of two hands holding each other to signify how you each of us can help during COVID
Relationships

How can I help?

If youโ€™re fortunate like me, youโ€™re probably sitting at home, in a COVID fog, waiting for your sense of smell to come back and wondering how to help during COVID. I use the word โ€˜fortunateโ€™ advisedly because of the way things are in the country currently, consider yourself lucky if youโ€™re stuck at home and […]

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Behaviour Relationships

Suicide Prevention 1.0

Last year when a much-loved film actor took the drastic step of ending his life, I had written about this issue, albeit a little distantly. This time the tragedy is closer to home. Three days ago, I similarly lost someone; someone who I knew only professionally but had come to respect greatly in my interactions with […]

Behaviour Family Friendship Relationships

Understanding Grief

We have entered the third month of 2021 with hope in our hearts that this year will be better than the last, that the struggles and despair of last year will get over and our lives will go back to their ordinary patterns again. But even as we try to move on, there are some […]

Aspirational Behaviour Brain Family Friendship Lawyer Relationships

When the clock struck 12…

…. I turned 35. Yes, as the day changed from 15th to 16th a few days ago, I turned 35. As a child, I always thought that anyone who has spent over 30 years walking this planet must be old. I mean, the first time I had this thought, my parents were already in their […]

Behaviour Relationships

Matchmaking 101

I recently did an online course on colour theory which was meant to help knitters choose the best colour palettes and combinations for their knitwear. The trainers went on and on about the colour wheel, primary & secondary colours, shades and hues and so on. Most of it went over my head and I will […]